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I can't tell y'all how sleepy I am. Dash and I had an unwanted visitor last night. Check it out. The video speaks for itself...

So Much Better than Collard Greens & Cornbread

Hey Everybody!!
Yes, I've been in hole, BUT for a very good reason. Most of my time has been spent on set filming as well as behind the scenes, handling business affairs.  Let's rewind so that I can explain what's REALLY going on!!

In February, I was hired at Daversa Partners as an Associate-Executive Recruiter to help develop the sports and entertainment sector of the firm. However, because of the hiring freezes within both the NBA and NFL, we were unable to gain contracts, and therefore, my position was useless. My time with the firm was deemed an internship and in May, I was officially unemployed.

In a matter of days, I was called to be the guest artist of a show premiering at the DC Black Theatre Festival. I packed my things, dropped Dash off with his grandparents and hit on the road (hence my last line in Ketchup and Mustard up some Missed Beets). Unfortunately, things fell through (as some independent projects do), BUT the experience allotted me the opportunity to study at The Second City (school of improvisation and sketch comedy) in Chicago!! I met some of the BEST comedic actors of my generation and developed lasting relationships with other Bohemian Artist Children like myself. :) I truly felt at home, and it was there that I regained a tight grasp on the RhyanMichele that had wondered off during the 6 months prior.

My Second City Summer Intensive Family

Me, Martha, Pat, and Janie Poo :)

I was privileged to attend a TJ and Dave Show at the iO Improv in Wrigleyville. As I performed my usual scan-the-room routine, I noticed VERY familiar faces. To my surprise, they were faces belonging to members of my SC theatre crew! Martha and I go back to grade school and Theatre South Carolina, and all four of us (Pat and Jane included) have worked as players/crew with TRUSTUS Theatre!! Martha and Pat are also KFA forensic actors as well. We MAY see each other once a year on assignment, so this was indeed heartwarming.

I seriously considered a move to the midwest; I have fallen in LOVE with Chicago. After returning to SC from my wonderful adventure (end of June), I was asked by a producer (who too saw me perform in Sweet Evalina) to attend a production meeting (that was scheduled in Orlando in 3 days); so Dash and I packed our things and headed back to our FL abode.

Who's THAT girl?!

While browsing through the Book of Faces (Facebook), I noticed a very familiar face appear in my timeline...
This just in!! It's a promotional contest hosted by one of Orlando's finest photography companies, Hughes Fioretti.  The face they were using to advertise the winning prize of a free mini photo session...

...MINE!!! 

http://hughesfioretti.com/blog/?p=231

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I am proud to represent such a wonderful team of photographers. Julie and Gary are not only great at capturing the moment, but they offer exceptional services that make you want to return again and again! 

#whoeverimarrywill

On Sunday, July 10, 2011, as I greeting my fellow Tweeters on Twitter, as I do every morning, I noticed the trending topic #whoeverimarry.  

(For those of you who are not familiar with Twitter and its contents, hashtags (#) are used to group discussions regarding a single topic.) 

In response, to the aforementioned topic, I tweeted the following:   

#whoeverimarry can't be trippin' about who I'm kissing on stage. Trust me. The show on stage won't begin to compare to the one at home. OK??

 

My Twitter homie and fellow entertainment professional, Courtney Jackson (@TheSouthrnGent) commented on my tweet and the following conversation was held.

(Keep in mind that Twitter operates on "mentions". When you see @RhyanMichele, that's Courtney speaking to me; when you see @TheSouthrnGent, that's me speaking to Courtney. Because of the character limit on Twitter, much is abbreviated.) 

THE CONVO...

@RhyanMichele I've always wondered how people feel when they see their spouse share a passionate kiss or sex scene on screen....

@TheSouthrnGent Having been in more than one relationship during my career, I've noticed that industry cohorts better "get it." Non-industry sig. others (in my case) felt very and completely uncomfortable. I dated a guy who too was an actor, said he was ok w it, but would tense up EVERY TIME!! He tried to sike himself out. It's all about knowing/trusting your sig. other and being comfortable knowing it's just a character, no matter what role. Aaaaaaaand, you didnt ask me all that. lol As you were. Lol

@RhyanMichele So how do u bring that up in a convo? And how does it make YOU feel knowing that this will be an issue for most guys?

@TheSouthrnGent Right off the bat, we know ea others professions. I'm the type of person that blatantly asks. Thats a question you can sneak in during a convo about a project you're working on. Or talk about a kissing role you had before and ask her thoughts. How does it make me feel?? It's a risk I have to take. Dont get me wrong. We all feel a certain way just thinking abt our sig. other kissing someone (acting or not). BUT that's where trust/understanding come in. Since it's a HUGE issue for most guys, I chose to roll w the punches. What I do now as a single actress, I dont see myself changing as a married actress. I'm already not gonna strip on stage (standard I've already set for myself, and my hubby may not going for it either). When it all boils down to it, it's apart of your "what I want" package, as w those who aren't actors. Did I ans ur question?

@RhyanMichele Yes u answered it... I understand where ur coming from.. If I have a late night studio session with a female vocalist in another state, thats something my s/o will have to deal.. My field, as well as yours, requires A LOT of time, so thats something else she'll have to get used to

@TheSouthrnGent YUP!!! Unless you get to the point where it's jeopardizing your relationship and you choose her over your career. Which can be tricky. We women need to know you'll choose us over your career. For me, it doesnt mean you have to choose. Just means I mean more to you than your career. If your career crashes, you wont lose your mind and throw me away but allow me to make up for what was lost. Goes back to the Alicia Keys song..."if i ain't go you" U what? U the woman or U the career?? Also for me, I'm a supporter. For my man, if he likes it, I FREAKIN' LOVE IT!!! And if i know im more important than that thing, Im gonna do whatever I can to HELP him get it. #1 fan, loudest cheerleader...ALL THAT!! But why would I support sumthin that I know takes precedence over me?? Call it silly but it could evolve into a 'wham bam thank you maam'! Now i'm stuck...

@RhyanMichele I feel u... Must be why people in the industry date in that circle... Makes sense that the biggest female artist (Beyonce) & the biggest male artist (Jay) would get married... They dont only love each other... They UNDERSTAND each other as well.

@TheSouthrnGent EXACTLY!!! And there are so many other perks that come with it too... PROMOS AND PUBLICITY!! Indirectly, they are a team/business!!

@RhyanMichele Yep... Cant ask for much more from your life-long partner...

THE END

Since this conversation was had, I've had second thoughts about some of these things... 

I would like to hear YOUR thoughts. Comment on this post!! 

1. What are your views on marriage and career? 
2. Should one meet your standards as they are set as a single professional?
3. Are you willing to change your way of business after marriage? 
4. What are your expectations in terms of a significant other's career?

**Feel free to post your questions for me as well. I'll collectively answer them and share my second thoughts in another post. :P

Life. Leadership. Legacy.

Due to unforeseen circumstances and a very hectic agenda, I've been slacking on my posts...
On Tuesday, July 26, 2011 my paternal grandfather, Deacon Tally Adams, Jr. transitioned into eternity.  I arrived home to SC on Thursday morning, relieved to be around my family, but on Friday morning, I wrote this:

"Waking up today felt different...
My heart grieves. Presently, my world seems quite surreal - stuck in a 1st gear of autopilot, as it reluctantly chases reality. BUT GOD. He gives comfort through both His Word and the unity of family; and THAT alone gives reason to celebrate."

Granddad and me in SC back in the day!!  I was almost 3 years old! :D

It's been a loooooooooog 4 weeks...

Father's Day 2011 :)

Along with my father, my grandfather moved me from SC into my first apartment in FL. Excited about my new endeavor, he even attended the Behind the Scenes tour with me at FULL SAIL, satisfied that I had made the right decision. I am forever grateful for the discipline he instilled in me to never let go of my heart's desires, and I will show my appreciation as I encourage and lead others to do the same. 

Missing him so much... 

Listen!! Don't just hear but LISTEN to what is being said and absorb the knowledge being given to YOU by those who have made it possible for YOU to be the best YOU. Allow the inner man in YOU to determine what YOU take and what YOU leave from the words said to YOU. Only YOU decide where YOU will go, what YOU will do and who YOU will become.  There is only one YOU!!!

Thankful for being a part of his 

LIFE, LEADERSHIP, LEGACY and LOVE!!

URGENT:: Casting Call for Upcoming Webisodes

Currently casting for non-union webisodes featuring 4 female leads, and attractive supporting males.

All ethnicities will be considered.

If interested please:

1) Read character breakdown.

2) Email us your headshot and resume.

3) Put in the subject line of your email the name of the character you would like to audition for.

We will then contact you with further audition information. Auditions will be held by appointment only.

EMAIL: miserablysingle@gmail.com

Character Breakdown

1-Angela—African American Female Age range 25-30. She is the shy one in the group. She is simple and plain in nature. She is cute but slim and nothing really stands out about her. She is also the most intelligent one. She doesn’t speak much but when she does the entire listen either in amazement or in disbelief.

2-Michelle—African American Female Age range 27-35. She is gorgeous, long weave and light skinned. She knows exactly what type of man she wants from height, weight, color, education and will not settle for less. Most uppity one in the group.

3-Tracy—African American Female Age range 27-35. She's a beautiful, dark chocolate female who wears extension as well. She's much like Michelle where she knows what she wants and will not compromise when it comes to men. She is closet to Michelle in the group.

4-Karen—Mixed with African American Age range 27-35. She's outgoing and fun to be around. Although she is mixed she only wants a black man and the other girls tease her about dating her other side, but she is not having it.

5-Monica—African American Female Age range 27-35—She is the most fashionable one in the group. She’s the wig queen. She changes them as often as she changes her panties. She is very articulate but will get ghetto in two second without hesitation. She is known for embarrassing her girlfriends when they are out. She keeps a calendar on the refrigerator of her last sexual encounter and all her girlfriends know and she is not ashamed to tell them at any given moment.

6-Booker—African American Male, age range 40-50—He’s your stereotypical “Mack Daddy” type from the 80’s. Someone that would wear an all bright red suit with a red pimp had and red shoes.

7-Brian—Any ethnicity male, age range 30-40. Average Joe, but very artsy looking.

8-Chad—Any ethnicity male, age range 25-35. Very handsome and clean cut with a beautiful smile.

9-Curtis—African American Male, age range 24-40. No taller than 5’3” and slender build.

10-Event Host—Any Ethnicity and any gender Age range 30-40. Lively and Fun and very articulate.

11-Greg—African American male, age range 25-40. Dark and handsome guy at least 6’ 3" tall.

12-Michael—African American male, age range 25-40, average Joe.

13-James—African American male, age range 25-35, Nerdy guy with glasses.

14-Limo Driver—Black Male preferable Jamaican or Haitian accent, age range 40-50. Average Joe

15-Nick—Any ethnicity, male, age range 25-30. Very handsome with nice body build.

16-Receptionist-Any ethnicity, any gender, age range 18-23.

17-Therapist—African American Female 40-60 years old. Very professional and articulate.

Ketchup and Mustard up Some Missed Beets :)

Whoa Folks!!  It's been way too long.  I had no intention of leaving the blog space open for such an extended period of time.  So many unexpected things have happened my way.  Nevertheless...I'm still here and flourishing like never before.  My days are super busy with traveling and new projects. (I'll tell you more about that in a few weeks.)  In the meantime, let me catch you up on the year...

December started it all:
For the very first time, I spent my Christmas, my birthday and New Years ALONE!!  I had my baby Dash (Cocker Spaniel) with me, of course, and I was able to relax and recover from Sweet Evalina.  It was a very different holiday season. However, I received a countless number of phone calls from family and friends and had cards covering my countertop, bar and office desk.  The presence of those who love me was certainly evident, and I appreciate them for that.

I left my place of employment with FAIRWINDS Credit Union after accepting a position as an executive recruiter with a premier boutique search firm.  Two days before my last day at the credit union, I burned my hand, wrist and arm in a "freak accident" involving coffee.  Yes! I said COFFEE at a CREDIT UNION. My FAIRWINDS family say it was my going away present. Soooooo, for Lenten Season, I gave up the warm, brown delight.  I truly miss them, (my co-workers, not my cups of coffee), but my 1st & 2nd degree burn scars don't let me forget! Nevertheless, I have healed right nicely.  "No pain...no gain."

Sweet Evalina helped to propel me to the next level.  I signed with BiCoastal Talent Agency and was cast in another show after the writer/director saw me perform as the character as Bernice. That project is scheduled for early September in Orlando, FL.


In March, we celebrated the life of my grandfather, Dea. Emeritus Walter F. Mayo, Jr.  His transition into eternity has been quite an adjustment for us all.  I miss him dearly.

In May, we partied as the Baby Falcon (little sister, Logan) graduated from high school!!  I'm extremely proud of the beautiful lady she's grown to be, and I'm excited for what's to come in her career.

Currently, I'm in a undisclosed location with one of Twitter's finest...working on yet another project!!   My down time is limited and things are moving rather quickly, but I'll certainly keep you in the loop. Stay tuned :)

Gramps and Me

The Baby Falcon is leaving the nest
KevinMayo, LoganMcKenzie, RhyanMichele

Bernice's Monologue

Bernice and her husband Pete (Donald Wilcox)

Dynell Ma'aseia and Me

The cast of Sweet Evalina

Cheryl and Bernice altercation 

Betty's Juke Joint
Dee (Tracie Turner Jackson), Cheryl (Elizabeth Judith), Bernice (RhyanMichele Adams), Teddy (erob)

Cast Shoot

Daddy and Mommy: tied for #1 on my fan base